No oysters for me please

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Recently, several different people have asked me the same question- "Any possibility of you being open to dating/a relationship/romance?"

My answer - Urgh, no.

I do not want a relationship anytime soon, no desire for one at all and no intentions of being 'open' to the idea. Quite the opposite. I am happy as I am now.

I have mentioned this several times before yet, for some reason people find it hard to understand what I mean when I say this. Don't know why- its a simple concept. Not rocket science. Can get quite annoying actually.

This is how i explained it to a friend:


Its like eating oysters. One day you eat and get really bad food poisoning. After that you have no desire or 'want' to eat oysters. You roughly can agak-agak when you'll eat it again, but you know for certain that it's not anytime soon.

=)

Its an unusual analogy yet, I think understandable. I just don't want; not interested. *shrugs*
My girlfriends can accept my opinion easier than my guy friends.

Ahhhh, I know - Its like how I have absolutely no desire to want to smoke a cigarette.
If I said that it makes more sense, yes?

Another reason (if people can't accept how I feel) is I just began working and want to concentrate on my career. Can? Acceptable reason?

As long as I know that I don't want a relationship, thats how long it'll be. Some day I'll be open to the idea, but I know its not anytime soon.

Spread the word.



I'll only make exceptions for :












*By the way, I don't eat oysters*

**If you are one of the culprits constantly asking me to 'consider', I hope you get the picture!**